Day 3 - Pick one moment during which you felt most alive this year. Describe in vivid detail.
See, now this prompt just makes me feel sad. Because either my memory really sucks that I can't remember a whole lot of moments like that in this past year, or there really haven't been that many. I'm thinking it's the latter. Sure there have been some good times. But that feeling the prompt is referring to? I've felt that truly alive feeling, the one that's different than the normal happy feeling, and it doesn't show up in recent memory.
I think we can all use more moments in our lives where we feel truly alive.
Day 4 - How did you cultivate a sense of wonder this year?
Well, I didn't. Thanks for reminding me.
Isn't this the kind of thing tat you have to intentionally set yourself to achieving? Like, you know, in advance? I'm not gonna lie and apply some bs in retrospect to make it sound like that was something I did. Nope, that's not something I intended to do. Perhaps I may have thought of it, if I wasn't so preoccupied with trying to not let my dreams slip by me for another year.
What I did set my mind to doing this year, was to start sharing and selling my artwork with the world. Which I did. Months later than I'd intended, but I finally did. And honestly it's pretty difficult for me to be proud of myself for actually achieving this rather than berating myself for taking so long.
My take: Everyone is in different place in their lives. Not everyone goes through the same stages in their progression through life. We all have our own paths and struggles.
Day 5: What, or whom, did you let go of this year? Why?
I've tried to let go of my fear of visibility, of letting others see the real me - my hopes and dreams, my artwork, stuff that really means something to me. This is still a work in progress. It's like whittling away the layers of a really thick barrier I've put up. I've thinned the barrier in a couple of places, but I've got a long way to go still.
There are other things I'd love to let go of. My day job, for one! (anyone with me on this one?) My morning dependence on coffee. The extra inches around my middle. The way that I'll push someone away when I feel vulnerable. Some other fears. Again, I'm still a work in progress.
And that's why I'm participating in this writing project, even with the prompts I dislike, because I want that progress. It was tempting not to answer a couple of them. But I've been down that road of not engaging with the things I'd rather not deal with, and I know that doesn't lead to anywhere I want to go.
So, I keep trying.
Photo credit: Rush Hour by Susan Sermoneta (Susan NYC on Flickr)
I love your responses, because they're honest. I think you and I share a general discomfort with some of the language of this kind of project - can I be honest and say that when I saw that part of the Reverb tagline was to "manifest what's next" I kind of threw up in my mouth a little? I think it's a great exercise and I want to fully participate, but some elements of it seem so cotton-candy-cloud cute/new agey! I'm trying to look beyond those and see how they apply to me.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your posts.
Hey Nadine! Thanks, I'm trying to write as honestly as possible here, otherwise why bother writing? Yes I'm struggling with the prompts... Haha I actually don't even notice when the word "manifest" is used anymore, but I definitely had trouble with "cultivate." It's like the new age version of corporate-speak, and those are two arenas that just *should not* ever merge.
ReplyDeleteGood luck, I hope you find your own way with this project. Take what you can use from them and change them around if you need to. Happy writing!